Exterior trends
| For your life in the world, saltlick can also be
helpful. For example, I’ve discovered that using a lens (the other metaphor, remember?) in the middle of a confrontational situation helps. It distances you from the mess. Surprisingly, the person (or persons) you are confronting will to some degree pick up on your own changed, slowed, focused behavior and react. A general lowering of the emotional and energy level follows, allowing an approach to a more reasoned solution to whatever the problem is. |